20 Great Questions To Ask Your Spouse

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20 GREAT QUESTIONS TO ASK YOUR SPOUSE (click the link to access the Word Doc)


1.    How can I love you better?

 2.    Do you feel heard in our relationship?

 3.    What has brought you the most joy recently?

 4.    What is your biggest goal for this year?  How can I help you achieve this?

 5.    What do you need my help with?

 6.    Do I give you enough space to be you?

 7.    How’s our sex life for you?

 8.    What’s one thing I can do to take a burden off of you?

 9.    What hobbies do you wish we could do together?

Ask Your Spouse

 10.  Do you feel respected when we’re in public?

11. Do you feel loved when we’re together? 

12. What is your favorite thing about yourself?

 13. Do you think we have a good division of labor in our marriage?

14. What could I do to make you feel more understood?

15. Am I doing anything that is driving you crazy?

16. Is there anything we need to discuss?

17. How can I pray for you?

18. What is one thing you’d like to do before we have kids?

19. What desires do you have that we haven’t discussed?

20. Am I meeting your expectations?